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Monday, June 11, 2007

Do Blonds Have More Fun?

Before I came to Japan, I heard that Japanese people are fascinated with blond hair. I didn't really believe it at the time, but now I've changed my mind.

A girl I work with has light blond hair and bright green eyes. She is constantly being stared at, followed, shouted at, flirted with, harassed, etc. Anytime I go anywhere with her, some random person, usually drunk, tries to talk to us/her. A couple of nights ago, a drunk guy chased us down the street blurting random English phrases like "Hello!" and "Nice to meet you." Last night she was approached three times in fifteen minutes while searching for our friends outside the restaurant. She makes her boyfriend accompany her to and from the train station because she often has men follow her down the street. The staff always use her for demo lessons, special seminars and customer chit chat. Another blond girl I know reports similar incidents and occasionally hears the Japanese word for golden shouted in her direction.

I have light brown hair and hazel eyes. The only people who talk to me on the street are middle aged women who blabber in Japanese. I rarely notice anyone staring at me and no one ever follows me to and from the station. I've never been asked to do a demo lesson or to chat up visitors. The staff always asks blondie, even if she is racing around in a hurry and I and the other brunette employee are obviously doing nothing. Now my hair color could be considered an advantage because I don't really want to talk to random people in the lobby and I certainly don't want to be stalked, but the vain side of me wishes I got as much attention. "Why don't people talk to me," my egotistical side screams "I want attention too! Look at me! Look at me!"

I considered dying my hair much lighter, as a sort of scientific experiment, to see if I got more attention, but then decided that would be pathetic and lame. I don't want to change my hair color to please strangers on the street. Besides, maybe she gets more attention because people find her better looking than me. Fortunately, she is a nice girl who doesn't let all the attention go to her head.

Has anyone else had these kinds of experiences in Japan or other countries? Is blond hair really that intriguing?

10 comments:

Anonymous said...

I know that Japanese people are absolutely crazy about the Western culture. However, I never knew that the level of obsession are so high toward blonds.

Crafty Japan said...

I know that I had a LOT of negative comments on my choice of hair colour over here when I dared to dye it black!! :) Why would anyone want black hair, they all thought ;)

Anonymous said...

Not directly related but you and your husband might want to start preparing for the inevitable.

http://www.japanprobe.com/?p=1993

Rio said...

Hajimemashite, Gaijin! I guess I had never thought or noticed that phenomenon, but my initial thought was how inappropriate and stupid it was for those sarariimen to follow, flirt, harass women who have blond hair. It's poor excuse to say that there's some fascination involved, and quite frankly I'm rather ashamed to hear of it. Anyhow, glad to know you weren't compelled to crave the attention, for it wouldn't be worth it.

Edan said...

Well, I am a Hong Konger and I live in Hong Kong(Asia). When I saw a blond in the street, it truly get my attention. Try to imagine that you live in a country that is even 99% of people are blond, and a day you saw a black hair man is wandering in the street, i think u will do the same thing(not stalking).
And be careful, when u take bus or train, there are some people we called "痴漢", who will touch women sexually in public.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chikan_(body_contact)

Sorry for my poor english explaination.

James said...

I work for an English school in Japan, and I am also stared at quite often for having blond hair and blue eyes. I'm also made to do demo lessons and witty banter for the company.

Many students and strangers tell me that I look like a doll, and I think that's where the whole fascination comes from. How Kawaii!

Dan and Kiko Murray said...

I'm a blue-eyed blond(English-Irish).When I worked in the Elementary schools, a lot of kids wanted to touch my hair and the hair on my arms. I was cool with that. I miss it. Now I work in the office and am lucky to get more than a puzzled look from the salary men.

Dan and Kiko Murray said...

...NOT that I want middle-aged salary men touching me...younger office ladies, maybe...sorry, nevermind. Anyway, I do miss my kids.

Takechanpoo said...

Probably most of Japanese think,
"Human hair color cant be gold!!!".
Actually I too think that.
BUHAHAHAHA

Emsk said...

I'm a red head (unnatural) with green eyes, which is fairly unusual here as well but come summer I walk around with a huge tattoo on my arm which means no one bothers me. And that's just how I like it!

This is my frst visit to your blog, Gaijin Girl. looking forward to reading more.